CAO’s Empowering Stories from Behind the Bench article series – September 2023
“The objective has always been to get kids active, healthy, and focussed on building strong life skills.”
By David Grossman
When Mark Peltier had an opportunity to impact the lives of young people in a positive way, he went right to work. There was no hesitation.
A modest guy, extremely focussed on always wanting to meet challenges with overwhelming success, the rewards started to show. In time, achievements and prosperity continued to shine.
For Peltier, what is acutely gratifying is watching it all happen in a place where it all began for him – his home on Manitoulin Island.
Known locally in Ojibway as “Spirit Island” and in the heart of the Great Lakes, it’s a place recognized for having the largest freshwater island in the world. Tack on some breathtaking sunsets.
Also shining, is the character, dedication, and work of Peltier.
His enthusiasm and energy clearly are evident in his ability to find positive ways to achieve a boom in success. That can be tough when the microscope is on individuals between the ages of nine and 15. Pushing for participation and engagement in a variety of activities can be arduous, but also intriguing.
Peltier chose sport as a way of attracting youngsters. His primary objective: getting them to benefit from physical health and exercise.
“Sport was so important in my life,” said Peltier. “It helped me learn, create relationships, become physically fit and strengthen my social and emotional skills. Now, what makes me feel even better is providing a form of enjoyment to youngsters in the community – and giving them the same opportunities.”
This September, Peltier was recognized with an Ontario Coaching Excellence award given out by the Coaches Association of Ontario (CAO) in partnership with Hydro One. It’s presented to a group of coaches, honoured during National Coaches Week for exemplary work along with the integral role they implement and achieve with their athletes, sport, and community.
As part of the award, CAO and Hydro One is presenting Peltier with a $500 award to purchase new equipment and tools from local Ontario or Canada businesses.
There are periods in life when growing up in smaller communities can sometimes feel like living in isolation – especially for a vulnerable age bracket. Peltier is quite aware that same age range is also hooked on what he calls “small screen devices”. You know of them as being cell phone games and computers.
“It makes my job, as a coordinator or a coach, that much more important,” he said. “I have to find positive ways to attract them to participate so they see it’s all meaningful.”
Peltier grew up on a farm in Wikwemikong First Nation located in the eastern peninsula of Manitoulin Island. For him, there were family responsibilities, which included baling hay, rounding up cattle, and a variety of other chores. Peltier understood his duties, but he also wanted some variety, too.
“My dad wanted me to work on the farm – to do real work,” recalled Peltier. “Sports was a waste of time to him. But when I became successful in school and sports, he changed his viewpoint and said he was proud of me – and I’ll never forget that.”
So, when was the break-out period for Peltier?
It may have been at Pontiac Elementary when Peltier showed the early signs of a fond interest in academics as well as a desire to experience taking part in a variety of athletic activities. He participated in every sport offered by the school.
But badminton was not one of them. For some reason, he explained, the school board just didn’t offer it and factors could have been a lack of funding or having someone to coach. That would change in time.
It was as a seven-year-old, while taking a break from duties on the farm that his ingenuity kicked in. With help from his sisters, he tied string between two trees and launched his own version of a badminton net. Confidence also became huge for him.
A multi-sport athlete, Peltier would go on to excel in the track and field obstacle event known as steeplechase. He went on to become the Nipissing District champ and competed at the Ontario high school track and field championships. It wasn’t the Olympic Games, but for him it was a huge personal accomplishment.
With a post-secondary education always a priority, Peltier went on to attend Toronto’s George Brown College, but would graduate with a diploma in fitness and leisure management from Cambrian College in Sudbury. Worth noting, was that he did win back-to-back gold medals at the Ontario colleges championships in cross country running. As for badminton, he was awarded the men’s singles intramurals badminton title during his time at George Brown.
“After College, the love for badminton remained and it was all for recreation,” he said. “The focus would switch to coaching. I had so much fun that I knew the responsibility shifted to help others, young people back home, and try to bring out the best in them.”
What would come next for Peltier would be huge for the community.
As the coordinator of healthy living youth programs for Noojmowin Teg Health Centre, which services First Nations communities on Manitoulin Island and the District, Peltier was looking for additional funding to launch programs.
In 2021, it came.
The federal Government’s Sport for Social Development in Indigenous Communities provided a two-year grant of $80,000, which included in-kind contributions from Noojmowin Teg Health Centre.
Peltier would tap into the allotment to form Badminton Warriors of Mnidoo Mnising (the Ojibway translation for Manitoulin). It was, and still is, the only badminton club on the Island and serves eight communities. Friendly, encouraging, and a positive role model, Peltier also fit the role of coach.
“The objective has always been to get kids active, healthy, and focussed on building strong life skills,” said Peltier, who is a benefactor of the National Coaching Certification Program.
He knows that the impact of the Sport Canada project is measured in a variety of ways that include participation numbers and physical literacy assessments. Another huge moment came in April of 2023 – the inaugural Manitoulin Island elementary school badminton championships took place.
Peltier couldn’t help but recall his younger years when the sport was not offered. Now, badminton is a school sport event across Manitoulin.
“It’s such a wonderful time,” said Peltier. “Kids love it, parents are happy, and I see everyone as a winner.”
David Grossman is a veteran multi award-winning Journalist and Broadcaster with some of Canada’s major media, including the Toronto Star and SPORTSNET 590 THE FAN, and a Public Relations professional for 45+ years in Canadian sports and Government relations.
“I had so much fun that I knew the responsibility shifted to help others, young people back home, and try to bring out the best in them.”
“We keep them occupied, teach them to learn to defend themselves, steer them in the right direction, make friends and keep them safe”
There have been times when he stood in a boxing ring, either training or just prepping for a bout, and there were flashbacks of his younger years – especially learning about the basics on how to defend himself.
Ibrahim Salah El-Din Kamal has come a long way since then. His journey of remarkable toughness and resilience may very well be a formula for success for others who have dreams and desires to also strive for excellence.
Kamal was born in what was then known as the Toronto suburb of East York. When his dad – a university professor and national swim coach – had a job opportunity in Libya that was too good to turn down, the family moved to Tripoli for what turned out to be about 10 years.
Sports, according to Kamal, were banned in that North African country at the time. As a five-year old, his parents were adamant that he should learn and understand how to defend himself when there was a need for it. So, with a pillow and a piece of plywood used as a punching bag, came his introduction. That first lesson in boxing had started – and with no gloves.
There was an incident in a school in Libya, where Kamal was bullied. But that never happened again.
“I remember it well, I was just a little kid trying to absorb everything including being in a new country,” recalled Kamal, who is from a mixed background of Egyptian and Guyanese parents. “But I also thought about one day having a career that involved working with kids in the sports sector.”
Kamal would return to Canada at the age of nine, grew up in a public housing complex and two years later would join the Scarborough Boxing Academy and later the Unitas Boxing Academy. His first fight, as an 11-year-old, did not go over well. It was a loss, but there was much gained involving strategies and more.
As for his academics at Pringdale Gardens and John McRae Junior Public Schools, Kamal was a very good student. That continued at the high school level where he would go on to graduate from R.H. King Academy.
In the boxing ring, Kamal became a winner in 1998 at the age of 13. It was a gold medal, his first, and it came at the Ontario Winter Games in Peterborough. A realization that hard work would lead to achievements and triumph had hit home.
As a teenager, for him there was very little time, if any, for participation in school sports as Kamal made Canada’s National boxing team at age 16. The Cabbagetown Boxing Club, where his rise to fame really took off, had become his home away from home and people were taking notice of this rising star.
“Looking back, I was a carded athlete while studying sociology at the University of Toronto,” he said. “But I should have taken education more seriously – especially since I had always wanted to become a teacher.”
Strong, both mentally and physically, he was always confident in the ring and often referred to as “Firearm” Kamal because of his hand speed and quickness. He became a Canadian National boxing champ eight times, with the goal of becoming the best boxer in the world. Kamal was once quoted as saying “the ring is where I belong – it’s my destiny. I am in complete control. The outcome is up to me.”
While he was unable to achieve his two primary goals, winning at the Olympics and World championships, he came away with an even bigger prize.
“I was crushed and devastated at not reaching those goals, but for me one door closed, and another had opened resulting in something much greater,” he said. “I got married to a wonderful person and we were committed to helping kids who needed assistance – some who were angry, some might be part of the youth justice system, others might live in foster care and the majority are dealing with systematic barriers. They needed positive reinforcement – and that was us.”
It was also the launching of the boxing-based youth charity called the Mentoring Junior Kids Organization (MJKO) in 2010. His co-partner is his wife (Miranda). A fighter in her day, cut short by a serious injury, she went on to be a Team Canada and International Boxing Association (AIBA) coach, and with her National Coaching Certification Program (NCCP) status, became a facilitator and official.
“She is an outstanding woman – and we do our best to motivate and mentor vulnerable young people from marginalized areas of the city,” he said emphasizing their hard work.
“There is no greater award than helping young people. Kids in some of the toughest neighborhoods in the city, who are often confronted by gangs, poverty, and various forms of bullying. A good coach can change a kid’s life. That is what coaches did for me.”
Programming is free and the club, located in the basement of a Parkdale building, has 200 members – boys and girls between the ages of eight and 18.
“We keep them occupied, teach them to learn to defend themselves, steer them in the right direction, make friends and keep them safe,” said Kamal. “It’s about building a different kind of champion. Saving a life, seeing kids grow and get better, is more than a gold medal.”
Kamal is a member of the Coaching Association of Canada’s professional coach designation program and graduated from the Advanced Coaching program through the NCCP and holds AIBA certification. There’s more. He was inducted to the Ontario Boxing Hall of Fame, is also a Boxing Canada learning facilitator, evaluator and was a mentor for the Black, Indigenous, People of Color (BIPOC) coaching program and a former head Coach of Ontario at the Canada Games.
Kamal was one of the recipients of a 2023 Ontario Coaching Excellence Award, presented by the CAO in partnership with Hydro One. The awards are being presented in September as part of National Coaches Week. Kamal also receives $500 to be used on equipment purchases for the MJKO club from local and Canadian businesses proudly provided by Hydro One.
While Kamal may have his share of accolades and awards, his focus has always been on ways to help athletes find ways to achieve their goals. The CAO’s series “Empowering Coaches from Behind the Bench” shines the spotlight on individuals, like him, with strong coaching fundamentals.
“It’s about building a different kind of champion. Saving a life, seeing kids grow and get better, is more than a gold medal.”
“As a coach, they always know that I am there for them. I’ve had kids come back and share great memories and the friendships that last a lifetime. It’s a remarkable feeling.”
There was a time when the legendary Canadian country and folk singer/songwriter “Stompin Tom” Connors created a song back in 1971, that gave notoriety to the small Southern Ontario town of Tillsonburg, about 50 kilometres southeast of London.
Hold on, there’s another individual in this community at the junction of Highways 3 and 19 that, although not as popular in the world of music, has certainly gained notoriety by producing a form of beauty, harmony, as well as various expressions of emotion in a different way.
Rebecca (Becky) Turrill has never been one for receiving personal awards. That will now change.
For the past 30 years, there has been a commitment by her to helping many boys and girls get an early start on learning about things like mutual trust and friendship – all while having fun. For her, doing what she does for several decades, is all about happiness.
Within the Tillsonburg Ringette organization, Turrill devotes long hours of volunteer work with one of the many teams. For her, it’s with the Tiny Twisters – and she’s the head coach.
For those not familiar with ringette, it’s a sport that has been around for some 60 years. Played on an ice surface, skates, sticks with drag-tips, and a blue rubber ring are part of the game. It’s as close as you get to hockey, but it isn’t. In fact, the next World Ringette Championship takes place later this year in Calgary.
For Turrill, known to many in the community as “Coach Becky”, her audience has had as many as 53 boys and girls on the ice at one time. All are under the age of six and they gather twice each week at the local community centre.
Looking on are a slew of parents who, day-by-day, see their own anxiety get replaced by watching children have fun and benefitting from a woman who thrives on success and enjoyment.
When she was a youngster, Turrill didn’t know much about ringette. She grew up in the community of Springford. Check a map, and you’ll see it’s that dot located slightly northeast of Tillsonburg.
For her, it was quite common seeing cows stroll through the family backyard. Softball was something she enjoyed, but so was playing the saxophone in the school band at Glendale High School.
As a teenager, she worked at the recreational centre. She was a youth leader and dreamed of one day becoming a teacher. Instead, after graduation, Turrill started working in customer service and is now a Program and Facility Registrar, which focuses on entering programs in the software system. She knows all about multi-tasking responsibilities with bookings for a variety of facilities, entering seasonal contracts and getting people signed up for recreational programs.
Married, a mother of two, a fulltime job, Turrill still finds time to also coach – something she started at age 16.
“Back then, it was coaching co-ed softball, then it became baseball and when my daughter played ringette, it looked like fun, so I got involved,” said Turrill, who has her Level 2 in the National Coaching Certification Program (NCCP). “Ringette looked intriguing, I didn’t know much about it, so I did my research and went on to realize that I could coach the basics for little kids.”
Always finding ways to stay inspired, Turrill is an individual emboldened with patience and enthusiasm. Skates need tying. Helmets require buckling. Try it for several dozen kids. Good coaches develop skills and Turrill is clearly on top of her game building confidence and character with her group of, well, wobbly skaters.
She even thinks of ways to continue encouragement and motivation. There’s always a special bonus after the practise for those reaching levels of success. That’s when Turrill digs into her bag and adds stickers to helmets.
“As a coach, I treat each kid as if they were my own kids,” said Turrill, who has coached all levels of ringette in Tillsonburg at both the Regional and Provincial Levels. “There are times when I feel like I’m a mother of 50.
“You become that extra level of support and it’s a wonderful feeling seeing them learn and show respect. As a coach, they always know that I am there for them. I’ve had kids come back and share great memories and the friendships that last a lifetime. It’s a remarkable feeling.”
Remember those younger years of wanting to become a teacher? Turrill certainly has contributed to educating youngsters in other ways. She even booked a week of vacation from work to run a summer ringette camp – and did it as a volunteer.
Her work did not go un-noticed by the Coaches Association of Ontario, as Turrill became one of the recipients of a 2023 Ontario Coaching Excellence Award presented to an exemplary group of individuals in celebration of the integral role they play with individuals and teams. They are being honored during National Coaches Week in September.
“I received a phone call with the news (of the award), and I froze,” recalled Turrill. “Oh my gosh, I was flabbergasted and couldn’t speak and got extremely emotional. It hit home, my head started to spin, and I am truly honored. I don’t do what I do to get recognized, I do it to watch kids develop. I coach because I thoroughly love it.”
Turrill will also receive a $500 prize, from event sponsor Hydro One, to be used for equipment and supplies for the Tillsonburg Twisters organization. Purchases are to be made from local, Ontario or Canadian businesses.
Alysha Armstrong said Turrill has coached her daughter, Sophia, for three years and “constantly provided confidence and encouragement” leading to remarkable success in her ability to skate.
Chelsey Durham, in her letter acknowledging the great work by Turrill, said she was impressed with the “appropriate skills and activities (used) to help the wide range of skaters (Turrill) was working with to progress effectively”. Her daughter, Quinn, was almost four years old, when Turrill outgoing friendly personality helped her learn to skate.
While the accolades just keep coming for Turrill, the mentor of so many has no intentions of stopping what she has done so well for years.
“I don’t do what I do to get recognized, I do it to watch kids develop. I coach because I thoroughly love it.”
“We are honored that our athletes felt comfortable coming to us with concerns regarding their mental health and then we try to connect them to available resources.”
Those early morning arduous practices, rowing on calm water, can sometimes create illusions, lead to many moments of grinding physical exercise, a plethora of great expectations and oodles of enjoyment.
Myma Okuda-Rayfuse has lived that life as an athlete, now a coach and is an embodiment for others. As a role model, it also goes beyond sports – it’s helping people, in her career of occupational therapy, regain their independence.
Various items become quite evident in a conversation with this bright and intellectual young woman. Clearly standing out, is her determination, willingness, and ability to comfort and guide people, and not on any one given day, but over a long period of time.
The traits of inspiration and encouragement may very well have come about in her teen years. That’s when she was eager to compete and take the rookie challenge in a variety of sports. She took learn-to-row programs at the Ottawa Rowing Club and the Kennebecasis Rowing Club in Rothesay, N.B.. There was also playing saxophone in the high school band and joining the choir at Glebe Secondary in Ottawa, where she was born, that showed her desire to learn.
But it was much more than becoming part of a group focussed on achieving success.
Hearing her elaborate about those early years in life, which included a brief stint with the high school rowing team. But that didn’t last. By her own admission, being one who liked to stay up late, night owl was the term she used, didn’t mix well with the concept of early to rise for rowing practices. Her parents also, didn’t think it was a good idea.
Yet, times have changed.
Eagerness and a lust for the sport of rowing re-surfaced in her first year of studying nursing at McMaster University in Hamilton. It was a break from assignments and studies, even though she had graduated from high school with academic honors. Others would get a glimpse of Okuda-Rayfuse being one of those gifted individuals – and it would become more evident in the years to come.
“I had something to prove, maybe there was a touch of jealousy, too,” she said, when asked about her novice season in rowing at McMaster. “I was put in the B boat but convinced that I was good enough to make the A boat. I was upset, but determined to show that I was better than some (had) thought.”
She was bang on. A minor personal setback became a major comeback. It wasn’t greed, but a hunger to excel – and mixed with the passion and devotion to reach for the top. Okuda-Rayfuse would take advantage of opportunities – and do well. She would go on to make the McMaster varsity team, and joined the Ottawa Rowing Club, during the summer months, to stay up with her physical exercise, row recreationally and strengthen her love for the sport.
The spotlight became very clear in 2017.
“My first big achievement came after finishing first in a competition of 36 boats at a Henley event that year,” she recalled. “It was my third year (at McMaster), and it was in the under-23 lightweight women’s singles (event). That was huge.”
Okuda-Rayfuse wasn’t done. That same year, at the Ontario University Athletics (OUA) rowing finals, and again competing on the world renown Royal Canadian Henley course, she caught more attention. This time, she finished second in a race won by Jill Moffatt, who is now a member of Canada’s Olympic team.
However, she was on Canada’s team that competed at the Fédération Internationale du Sport Universitaire (FISU) World University championships in Shanghai, China. Joining her was Alanna Fogarty in the lightweight women’s doubles competition. They finished ninth.
Okuda-Rayfuse never did make it to the Olympics or World championships. For her, there would be a bigger stage to shine – and it was not in the sports world.
Also in 2017, she accepted an offer to coach the Learn to Row program at the Leander Boat Club – a community club with an assortment of programs and located on the south shore of Hamilton Harbour. Enthusiastic about rowing and the club, she would also be appointed to the club’s Board of Directors.
“It was a great opportunity for me, I enjoyed it and strengthen my ability to learn more about the club, the sport, the athletes and share my experience,” she said, while also acknowledging that she found time to help with the coaching the rowing team at Hamilton’s St. Mary Catholic Secondary School.
Then, a bit of a shocker after receiving her degree at convocation. She would spend the summer working at a grocery store because the 12-hour nursing shifts would have interfered with rowing practice. Her focus was on trying to make the Canadian roster for the World University Games and then see “where life would take me”.
Again, Okuda-Rayfuse knew there was some additional unfinished business. That resulted in her adding to the academic resume by completing her Masters in occupational therapy.
These days, she is on the staff of the Hamilton General Hospital and works at the location that is home for several key regional referral programs offered by Hamilton Health Sciences.
“My values had changed and there was more interest in quality of life,” she said. “I had worked part time as a nurse, worked in a rehabilitation unit and graduated in November of 2021, I was focussed on my future and enjoy helping people regain independence. I see my job as being very person focussed.”
Busy and focussed, Okuda-Rayfuse is also a co-coach of the rowing program at McMaster and when asked about her proudest moment outside of being an athlete, she highlighted the coaching effort in McMaster winning a gold medal at the 2022 OUA championships. It was the first gold by a women’s team in the past 20 years.
In addition to coaching at McMaster, Okuda-Rayuse is responsible for the senior competitive program at Leander. That involves a group of 30+ athletes from nine different universities across North America. She, primarily, coaches the under-23 and senior women. In July of 2023, each athlete in her program won, at least, one medal at the provincial championship.
In recognition of her overall coaching experience and community support, Okuda-Rayfuse was chosen as the 2023 recipient of a special award presented by Hydro One, in partnership with the Coaches Association of Ontario (CAO) at the recent Ontario Coaching Excellence Awards. It’s called the Hydro One Safe Play award given to an individual who is committed to practicing positive, inclusive and safe sport through their leadership role.
The CAO “supports coaches by ensuring that all sport participants are physically, emotionally, and mentally safe, with accessible and affordable tools and resources”. The Safe Sport 101 partnership between the CAO and Hydro One gives coaches the tools they need to make sports safe, fun, and inclusive for all.
“I look at the legacy of coaches and for me it has only been a couple of years,” said Okuda-Rayfuse. “As a coach, I always promote fun and the community. Rowing is a tough sport and there are lots of athletes who quit because times can be very challenging.
“Mental health has always been a problem in sport, especially amongst student athletes. We are honored that our athletes felt comfortable coming to us with concerns regarding their mental health and then we try to connect them to available resources.
“I was overwhelmed to receive this award and it validates the work I am doing. I coach with others, and we know we are making a big impact in peoples’ lives – also in my life.”
“I was overwhelmed to receive this award and it validates the work I am doing. I coach with others, and we know we are making a big impact in peoples’ lives – also in my life.“
CAO’s Empowering Stories from Behind the Bench article series – August 2023
“I had learned a great deal and wanted to coach. There was so much to share, and I figured it was the right thing to do.”
One life to live and she is making the best of it.
As a youngster, Gail Simmons grew up in Cramlington, a small town known for its architecture and landscape in northeast England near the border of Scotland. With a storied past of history and heritage, that same area would one day also be known as home to a pair of movies chronicling the life of that young wizard, Harry Potter.
Yet, fascinated with the world of graphic design, with a relative having already chosen that career, she would go on to maximize her interests by earning a diploma from a prestigious British school known as York College. The ambiance of a building would eventually get shelved as she would go on to explore something vastly different.
Big on imagination, creativity, and having an astute passion for learning, little did she know back then, that one day she would also be a strong candidate as one of those notable figures born in that English community of Northumberland.
In her case, the winds of change would lead to her becoming a World champion. But, at what?
At the age of 21, while examining leisure opportunities in fitness and self defence programs, she took an interest in the sport of taekwondo – one of the oldest forms of martial arts. It was something that would involve a variety of hand and kick techniques. Hold on, there would also be cardio conditioning that became an effective way to burn things like belly fat.
Society had, and still has, its share of people who view kickboxing as something not appealing – especially to the female crowd. Times have certainly changed as women continue to get engaged in a variety of sports and recreational programs that, at one time, would never even have considered.
Having earned a third-degree black belt eight years later in taekwondo (her initiation to martial arts), and then getting married to Gary King, the two had taken a trip to Canada. Not sure if it was for business, family visits, or vacation. One thing was for certain: it would also lead to immigration in 2008. For King, the ingenuity and inspiration was continuing to grow in martial arts.
Curiosity pursued along with the eagerness to get involved in strength and conditioning programs. That would initially come at a small gym in Guelph. King would get her first Canadian glimpse of Muay Thai – a combat sport that uses a variety of clinching moves and stand-up striking.
It wasn’t long before she would pivot to kickboxing – the full contact combat activity that involves kicking, punching, and clinching. She also saw it as an opportunity to expand on various aspects of fitness training. Others just described kickboxing as a glorified form of boxing.
“For me, it all started with fitness and then, after my first fight, I knew it was an activity that I wanted to grow in and learn,” said King, who is fond of some great memories in an athletic career that has included numerous awards at the Ontario, Canadian, and international levels.
A glimpse of what was up and coming may well have occurred in 2015 at the World Kickboxing Federation (WKF) Provincials in Ajax, a community located just east of Toronto. That’s where King had won her first award – and it came in the form of a championship.
“It was the first fight that I had ever won,” recalled King. “I can remember it was something that I had lots of fun.”
Jubilation would grow for King as one heralded event would stand out above all others and it came a year later in the Adriatic port city of Bari, Italy.
With the stakes much higher and the competition tougher, King would find her way to the winner’s podium and leave with a gold medal, along with a pair of silvers, at the 2016 WKF Championship. Happiness isn’t a strong enough word to explain her feelings. Also rewarding would be the role model she had become for younger girls and women across the country.
Things happened quickly for King, and after winning a silver medal at a World Martial Arts Games event in Arbon, Switzerland, she chose to retire from competition at the age of 39. Always a difficult decision for any athlete, King had devoted countless hours and a commitment to excel. But she was not done with the sport.
Excellence continued for her in one of the most popular combat sports around the world. With the International Olympic Committee recognizing kickboxing as an Olympic sport on July 20, 2021, King made another judicious move.
This time, it would be as a mentor.
“I had learned a great deal and wanted to coach,” she said. “There was so much to share, and I figured it was the right thing to do.”
Educating and mentoring others. That was her next move. So, she formed Valhalla Mixed Martial Arts in Cambridge, located about a 45-minute drive from her home in Rockwood. It’s a facility that offers classes for every age group and level. She is the Head Coach and owner.
Worth noting, King is also a WKF Referee and Judge.
“Kickboxing builds confidence, discipline and helps with mental health,” said King, who has Level 2 certification by the World Association of Kickboxing Organizations (WAKO) and Boxing Canada.
“I love the sport and want to do whatever I can to grow it, push for more females to get involved. My dream is to be associated with someone, who will represent Canada at a future Olympics.”
King knows that many people can get the wrong impression of kickboxing and view it as a violent activity that conjures up images of people knocking each other out. Some also see it to be no more violent than sports like basketball, football, and hockey, that statistically have large numbers of injuries, while wearing protective equipment
In fact, the National Safety Council, located in Itasca, Ill., reported that more than three million people in the United States were treated for sports injuries in hospital emergency rooms in 2021.
“(Kickboxing) is not brutal”, said King, who has coached individuals between the ages of six and 50. “Yes, it hurts to get kicked and punched – but it’s a sport where you’re also building up endurance and power training. Competing in kickboxing, is not just something people do for major competitions. It’s an activity that involves enjoyment, recreation, and physical fitness.
“My goals as a coach are to continue to grow the sport that I love and encourage more females into the sport whether that be as recreational or a competitive athlete and hopefully that leads to more female coaches and leaders in the sport.”
While there are all sorts of qualities and characteristics that make up a good coach, King draws from her knowledge and experience to endorse enthusiasm, development of goals and a great deal of patience. Her gym is one for all abilities and fitness levels.
“My expectations for my students, that depends on the student and age.,” she said. “For the juniors, (it’s to) learn kickboxing but have fun doing it. If they are learning kickboxing recreationally, then I want them to enjoy it, push themselves and smash whatever goals they have set. If they want to be competitive, it’s all of the above.”
Mariam Lami knows what it’s like to work hard and enjoy success.
She started kickboxing in her teens, took a break, and then returned to the gym at age 25 after complaining how much she missed the sport. Benefitting from great coaching from King, Lami went on to win the 2022 National kickboxing championship in the women under 60 kilos category held in Niagara Falls, Ont.
“There was a time when I wasn’t sure if I would compete again, but knew there was always room for improvement,” said Lami, who works in the medical device industry for FluidAI Medical in Kitchener.
“My club had closed, but I knew about (King), shad seen her fight and I may have even sparred with her once. Then, found out she had opened a gym. She is a fantastic coach, made me a better fighter and I wouldn’t have been able to win a title without her.”
Through the Coaches Association of Ontario series “Empowering Stories from Behind the Bench”, features like the one on King focus on individuals who find opportunities to enhance the use of strong coaching fundamentals for training, guidance, and improvement.
“Kickboxing builds confidence, discipline and helps with mental health.”
CAO’s Empowering Stories from Behind the Bench – July 2023
“I have really come to enjoy (coaching) – and seeing the growth by my teammates, means a great deal to me.”
There were times when, like so many others, he was stuck in a rut.
Imagine having a hollow feeling, confidence had slipped, self-esteem was absent, and toss in plenty of aggravation and frustration.
That was John Azlen, in his teenage years, growing up in Windsor. Some might call it a form of depression. For Azlen, those feelings had to do with a variety of factors.
As a youngster, he had dreams of always wanting to serve in the Canadian Armed Forces. But he would learn that it wasn’t going to be possible because of physical pre-requisites that Azlen would not be able to achieve.
Azlen was born with a birth defect and, at six months of age, became a double amputee above the knee.
In time, he would adjust to prosthetics. Eventually, he would make the call to give way to a wheelchair.
As a graduate of Riverside High School, Azlen then needed time to ponder his future. He chose a temporary path of factory work. It was also easy to get bogged down while losing sight of what matters most. Along with various forms of barriers, he would learn quickly that a lack of post-secondary education was not in his best interests.
Confidence was starting to kick in. He was able to see a different way of living. Then, change hit home. The days of life being empty and dull would be replaced by chosen qualities, and him focussing on his deepest desires.
Azlen had enough of feeling sorry for himself and was determined to do what was necessary to make his life better. He was beginning to understand what his new needs would be in order to build the most meaningful life possible.
“I was 27 years old, not very happy, and I needed to do something with my life,” he said in a telephone conversation from his home. “Enough of the wandering, I had to try do something positive with my life and, of all things, watching a movie gave me that extra inspiration and motivation. It was a huge turning point in my life.”
Azlen liked what he saw in the 2008 movie “Yes Man”. It was a comedy about an individual who supported the ideas and opinions of another person to try and earn that individual’s approval.
For Azlen, he figured that would be a time to say farewell to his negative feelings and replace them with a variety of positive opportunities and good things.
“The power of saying “yes” took over for me,” he said. “I returned to school and earned a diploma from St. Clair College in Business Administration and Marketing. For years, I was the guy who didn’t want to be social – but now, things would be different going forward. I’ve also always honored my commitments and I felt different.”
Robust and eager to take on a new role, Azlen examined opportunities and acted upon them.
In 2012, while at St. Clair, Azlen met John Boyko – a man passionate about wheelchair basketball. Boyko also started project called Wheel Living, later changed to the LaSalle Lightning basketball club. Fun, inclusiveness, and a positive social environment were priorities and that’s where Azlen learned to play the sport.
“I heard him talk about the sport, the club, and decided to get involved – there was accessible transit, too,” added Azlen. “But I really didn’t know much about basketball. I also knew there was a time when (Boyko) figured his time coaching was limited and in 2016 the club folded.”
Azlen got together with Rob Bahry, a former teammate, and decided the time was right to bring wheelchair basketball to Windsor.
“There was nothing around, nothing,” said Azlen. “So, as co-founders, we re-started the program in 2018 as the Rose City Riot Para Sports Club and it gave me an opportunity to learn more about the sport, coaching – while also getting an opportunity to play and have fun.”
Trying to stay humble, Azlen also felt the self-awareness really kick in. Along with it, came an urge to help others. His knowledge of coaching received a huge boost – but, he claims, only from one key organization.
“A lot of what I am doing is because the Coaches Association of Ontario (CAO) had a peer mentorship program that helped me a great deal while there were some professional development modules available through the National Coaching Certification Program (NCCP),” said Azlen.
“I have really come to enjoy (coaching) – and seeing the growth by my teammates, means a great deal to me,” he said. “Since I started coaching, I’ve made friends with coaches across the province and the recognition, from others, has meant a great deal to me along with improving my knowledge.”
No longer one who is withdrawn, miserable and discouraged, Azlen is doing something that is lacking across the country – a coach in a wheelchair.
“I really feel good about myself and very proud of what I have achieved,” he said. “I look around and there is a lack of information for people to go on-line and learn about what it’s like to coach from a wheelchair. Everything is for those who are not physically challenged.”
James Murphy is Executive Director of ParaSport Ontario – an organization that supports the disability community connect with, and participate in, competitive and recreational adaptive sport programs and activities of their choice to enhance physical function and quality of life”.
Across Canada there appears to be a limited number of people with disabilities coaching others with impairments. Same is true for Ontario with supports, resources and training being some of the key factors.
“It’s very unfortunate and the same is true for the lack of variety parasport opportunities for participants with disabilities especially outside of major population hubs in Ontario,” said Murphy.
“There are not a lot of John Azlen’s, who put in effort each day to run, coach, arrange and even play while still having to work through many barriers including locations to practice, and adaptive equipment costs – and he hasn’t waivered because he cares so passionately about what he is doing and why.”
Murphy, and others, realize that Azlen is a very dedicated person from a coaching perspective and wanting to give back as well as help (the disability community) in the Windsor area. There may come a time when even Azlen is limited in what he can to keep the basketball club functioning with these barriers in place.
Azlen has been using a rental basketball wheelchair that isn’t properly fitted for him. In need of something new, that wish came true as he was recently a recipient of the ParaSport Ontario Play to Podium Fund that awarded him a new basketball wheelchair. According to Murphy, it is valued at more than $8,000.
Through the Coaches Association of Ontario series, “Empowering Stories from Behind the Bench”, focus on individuals – like Azlen – who find opportunities to enhance the use of strong coaching fundamentals for improvement, guidance, and training.
“Since I started coaching, I’ve made friends with coaches across the province and the recognition, from others, has meant a great deal to me along with improving my knowledge.”
TORONTO – June 15, 2023 – Today, CAO and Hydro One announced the 38 recipients of Hydro One’s Indigenous Hockey Coaching Grant. Coaches from more than 25 Indigenous communities across Ontario received funding to increase Indigenous representation in sports leadership.
Grant recipient, Mike Richon of the G’Chimnissing hockey team from Beausoleil First Nation and hopes to continue to motivate his players, while offering a safe and encouraging space to nurture their growing athletic abilities. “Being a part of a league is important to these young athletes, it promotes leadership development and a healthy sense of competition,” said Mike Richon. “A huge part of building inclusion and self-esteem is ‘looking’ the part. This grant will enable us to buy new jerseys for our players, among other essentials.”
“A coach has the power to inspire generations of youth to excel in not only sport but in everything they do,” said Jeremy Cross, Executive Director, Coaches Association of Ontario. “Each day, we support coaches across Ontario in creating safe and positive experiences for all athletes. We are thrilled for the recipients of Hydro One’s new grant and are excited to watch them inspire and encourage young players of this magnificent game.”
“Being part of a team is an invaluable experience, and Hydro One is proud to help make hockey more inclusive, safe and fun for everyone,” said Penny Favel, Vice President, Indigenous Relations, Hydro One. “Coaches are powerful role models and leaders to their athletes, teams and communities. This grant will provide more opportunities for Indigenous coaches to share the power of sport.”
The following coaches and communities were selected to receive up to $1,500 from Hydro One and the Coaches Association of Ontario:
Initially announced at the Little Native Hockey League (Little NHL) tournament in Mississauga in March, Hydro One’s Indigenous Hockey Coaching Grant aims to help remove barriers and make hockey more affordable and accessible to coaches and young players from Indigenous communities. The grant will help assist with out-of-pocket expenses incurred for such items as equipment, travel, childcare and training.
“First Nations inclusion and representation in sport is the first step in getting our youth excited about being on a team,” said Patrick Madahbee, Acting President, Little NHL and Member of the Aundeck Omni Kaning First Nation. “This grant from Hydro One and the CAO will have continued positive impacts on the teams, the coaches and the players by knocking down any barriers that may have held them back in the past.”
This year’s Little NHL tournament saw more than 2,400 Indigenous children and their coaches participate in a fun-filled, week-long tournament. Hydro One’s Indigenous Hockey Coaching Grant builds on the company’s existing partnership with the CAO and the Little NHL, which has been bringing Indigenous athletes together for close to half a century.
Through its community investment program, Hydro One focuses on building safe communities in Ontario, and directs at least 20 per cent of its corporate donations and sponsorships to Indigenous communities and initiatives that benefit Indigenous communities. The company also supports programs, events and initiatives that focus on safety training and safe play. Some of its partners include The ACT Foundation and Coaches Association of Ontario.
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CAO’s Empowering Stories from Behind the Bench – May 2023
“What mattered to them is what we have stressed from the start of the season – to have fun, play as a team, learn, and look for opportunities to get better.”
**Update: It happened – a championship in the Whitby Minor Baseball Association.
Hard work, a commitment to excel by students and strong coaching. Toss them all together and what results is an opportunity to be No. 1.
Team skipper Matt Peate is not one to take credit, but his team can.
The Mets beat the Royals 24-11 to win the regional title and cap a perfect playoff record. Four wins in four games to go along with an 11-4-1 season. In 2022, the team finished 3-16.
“A great victory for these young players who were focussed and learned a great deal,” said the winning coach. Matt Peate watched his team advance to the championship with a 6-2 win over the Reds.
“The key to their success was teamwork. All year, as their coach, I preached we win as a team, we lose as a team, and we have fun as a team. The support and encouragement they provided each other was amazing.”
Charlie McIntosh knocked in what turned out to be the winning run as his single paved the way for Declan Peate to reach home plate. Ben Pescador will remember this game the rest of his life with a stellar performance from the mound and notching the win.
After the game, Sawyer Pigeu was awarded the title of Most Valuable Player for the season.
“Just an all-around great player,” praised the coach. “He has nerves of steel on the mound during pressure situations, great at bats and willing to help the team in any way he could by encouraging and leading the way.” **
Memories rarely fade, especially some of those special moments that are truly treasured.
Like the card Matt Peate received, and cherishes, from a young player called Maddox that reads “Thank you for being a great coach!”
As a sports coach, Peate likes to share flashbacks of meaningful times that embellished the feeling of optimism and accomplishment.
With a captivating smile, during a conversation over coffee, Peate shared his memories of a team he coached in the Whitby Minor Baseball Association.
In fact, he remembers it very well.
Made up of eight-and-nine-year-old players, his team had just been trounced, 16-1. Then came the post-game handshake, and those same players – crushed on the ball diamond – were then seen jumping up and down in an outburst of raucous triumph.
It wasn’t choreographed, but it was a scene he will never forget. Neither did the opposing coaches and the players on the victorious squad, who couldn’t decipher the hysteria displayed after a tumultuous loss.
Always optimistic, showing poise and confident, Peate’s explanation was unequivocally forthright.
“What mattered to them is what we have stressed from the start of the season – to have fun, play as a team, learn, and look for opportunities to get better,” said Peate. “At their age level, it’s not always about winning games, trophies and championships.”
While some coaches may have a difference of opinion, in Peate’s universe there is no disappointment or frustration. Yes, deflating times, but that goes for much more than a minor league baseball game.
John Wooden, a former college coach, once said “Success is peace of mind which is a direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing you did your best to become the best you are capable of becoming.”
When it came to thinking that good things would happen with his players, Peate was bang on.
“The focus is on the kids and what we do to build confidence and enjoyment,” he said. “Sure, every kid wants to be like the pros, dream of making it to that level – and I was the same. There are rules that players understand, and I always enforce two, by e-mail and face-to-face: have fun and make sure you always bring the equipment, so you don’t get hurt.”
In addition to his own evaluation, Peate has received positive reaction from parents wanting him to coach their sons the following season.
“Lots of support,” said Peate, whose team had a tough 2022 season finishing with a 3-16 season record. “I made a commitment to these players that win or lose, they always need to have a smile on their face at the end of the game.”
When there is a need to reinforce rules, Peate does just that – and in an eloquent and sincere way. He’s also a coach known for inspiring hard work and, also, for taking time away from sport to deal with issues.
“I always find time to talk with kids who may have personal or family concerns or challenges,” he said. “Educating players, especially when it comes to behaviour, is very important.
“I once had a player, and he was very competitive, who struck out and threw his bat. I had a private conversation with him on the bench about self-control. I told him that we all have bad days, and it’s okay, but I made it quite clear that we would not tolerate it. Things improved.”
Peate’s introduction to organized baseball came as a nine-year-old, in the former Bloor Baseball League. His first coach emphasized the importance of every player on the team. Peate doesn’t hide that he has followed the same pattern.
“Back then, there was no best, or worst player – we played, learned and developed as a team,” he said. “My coach was one inspirational individual for me. I felt that I was a good player, but it was his encouragement and motivation that made me a better player.”
Raised by a single parent, family financial situations were a challenge.
Disappointment would come learning that aspirations of making the major leagues just would not come about. At age 14, his baseball dreams were shattered when, despite asking to be pulled because of shoulder pain, his coach left him in for another inning. That proved to be costly as he was unable to lift his arm, with medical staff later determining he had a rotator cuff injury.
Peate also didn’t have the funds to pursue a college or university education. As an 18-year-old, it was right to the work force, where he found employment in a restaurant as a cook and eventually as a supervisor. What became abundantly clear was his devotion to the job and superb customer service skills.
Experience, hard work, and a commitment to excel were priorities. Benefitting from an engaging and upbeat personality, and always sorting out his thoughts with a bright outlook, Peate doesn’t skip over opportunities. These days, he’s a Director of Operations for nine Tim Horton’s restaurants in York Region, where coaching staff takes on a whole new meaning.
What perked his interest in coaching came one spring day while taking his four-year old son to a baseball tryout. There was a need for community volunteers and coaches.
“I wanted to help and knew my coaching skills were work related,” he said. “I was leading adults, not children, in a work environment. For house league baseball, I didn’t have coaching certification but knew screening, enforcing discipline, rules and common sense would be very important.”
So, what’s it like as a sports coach?
“I do it because I love it,” said Peate, who also coaches house league hockey games. “The focus is always on the players in helping them, providing opportunities to learn, to work with others, and develop relationships.”
The Coaches Association of Ontario series, “Empowering Stories from behind the Bench”, continues to put the spotlight on individuals – like Peate – who merge excellence in teaching with the strong coaching fundamentals of improvement, guidance, and training.
“The focus is on the kids and what we do to build confidence and enjoyment.“
CAO’s Empowering Stories from Behind the Bench – April 2023
“I’m always looking to make someone’s life better whether it’s being around for conversations or just showing that I care for others, and I can help change their trajectory in life.”
Powerful comments that are emotionally stunning.
They are from Trevaun Douglas.
“Life is a precious thing,” he said. “I grew up in an area, tough times, saw people struggle, violence, neighbourhood trauma and paranoia amongst young people, and I knew my purpose was to try help the next generation make things much better.”
There’s no need talking to Trevaun about his memories in the Lawrence Heights area of mid-town Toronto. That’s where he resides. He works in the same community, understands the issues and is now trying to help young people enhance their quality of life – by doing it the right way.
For Trevaun, raised by a single parent who had struggled to do her best for him and his siblings, it took a certain belief. There was also an abundance of confidence – a spirit of determination that would want him to leave his stamp. Also, a positive impact on a community hindered by turmoil over the years.
“My daily battle is to lead where I can – and get better at what I do,” said the 25-year-old, whose first name is defined as being one who is “sensitive, affectionate, imaginative and cooperative, and prone to self-sacrifice”. Add on being an individual who has developed intuition, patience, an ability to learn easily, nurture others and thrives on a desire to balance his life with those around him.
A youngster who had his share of tough times, relied on a foodbank, but still dreamed of a career as a health and nutrition coach and a trainer for athletes.
His strong words have already sent shock waves and a wake-up signal to young people who reside in what is believed to be the largest social housing redevelopment area in Canada’s iconic city.
It’s also a neighborhood, once hindered by gangs, compulsion, and vulnerability, that is now focussing on transformation by attracting newcomers while also meeting the needs of current residents.
Many would say it’s a difficult societal challenge, but Trevaun is determined to do his share of enhancing the quality of life in the area.
“I care about people and while I might not have all the answers, I can relate to the community and might be among the generation to solve one piece and then go on to fix other things,” he said.
Juggling his job as a custodian and maintenance worker with Toronto Community Housing in Lawrence Heights, Trevaun has benefitted from a small government grant that helps young people – between the ages of 15 and 25 – with his “Mind on Strength” program that cultivates skills.
As if that isn’t enough, you’ll find Trevaun working long hours at the neighborhood community centre. For him, it’s on a hardwood floor – where he developed a Friday evening basketball program that involves instructing and educating young people through sport.
“I needed to find a hook to get kids involved, to hear me and I know they all like playing basketball,” added Trevaun. “In basketball, the most important thing is character development – not scoring points. I tell younger people to have fun, it’s not about winning games, but keeping teams in good spirit, personal growth and realizing who you’re becoming.
“When I was younger, I had mentors. People cared about me and it’s now my turn to be an advisor, a part time coach and someone who can relate to young kids that while it’s so easy to take the wrong path and be a statistic, it’s time to wake up and do things the right way.”
Trevaun’ story is part of the Coaches Association of Ontario (CAO) Jumpstart Into Coaching program, which is being offered thanks to funding provided by Canadian Tire Jumpstart Charities.
Trevaun went to Flemington Public School where he was big on poetry and music. Then it was off to Lawrence Heights Middle School, followed by two years at Vaughan Road Academy and graduation from John Polyani Collegiate. He then benefitted from a personal training course on business and nutrition, cultivated his skills, and was hired at the North York General Hospital as an attendant that served food to patients.
It was work experience, developing contacts, looking for opportunities and what he also called short term money to survive tough times.
Trevaun has met some interesting people along his life journey, but one individual he hasn’t is also one he admires and has inspired him. American athlete David Goggins and author of the book “Can’t Hurt Me”, has come a long way in his life. While Goggins was born with a congenital heart defect, asthma, and has grappled obesity in his life, he’s big on health and wellness.
“He gave me the best advice so far and said you’re in danger of living a life so soft, so comfortable that you would die without realizing your true potential – and that stuck with me,” said Trevaun. “He has encouraged me to always do better and it’s something I want to get across to others, too.”
Trevaun doesn’t talk much about his mentoring of junior age kids while coaching boxing or having created a documentary in 2020 during the pandemic, pointing out the struggles in the Lawrence Heights community. And there’s also the drop-in program he launched for teens, where they can learn about financial literacy, learn about mental health, seek resources – and do it all in a safe environment.
Whatever chance he gets, Trevaun informs people that his community program is about taking youth off the streets and allowing them to do something productive – rather than detrimental to their future. He also knows it can take the feeling of fear away from parents knowing that their kids are somewhere safe.
“One day, times will be a lot different in Lawrence Heights and it will be known for the right thing,” said Trevaun. “I’m always looking to make someone’s life better whether it’s being around for conversations or just showing that I care for others, and I can help change their trajectory in life.”
There’s a saying in the psychological world that nobody watches you harder than the people who hate your confidence. Trevaun continues to let his confidence shine through, hoping it rubs off on others who, like him, grew up confronted with challenges and serious struggles.
The Coaches Association of Ontario series, “Empowering Stories from behind the Bench”, continues to put the spotlight on individuals who educate the use of strong coaching fundamentals of improvement, guidance, and training.
“My purpose was to try help the next generation make things much better.“
“I feel that I have made progress, but there will continue to be a lot more to get done. It’s all about life and making it better for younger people.”
Kwame Otchere refuses to change what he does – because it’s done for all the right reasons.
There’s no command performance. No glitzy show. For him, it’s all about finding a practical way to inspire others.
Otchere, who was born in Toronto, is on a journey. It’s one that is full of challenges and decisions. Even with all and that, comes periods of uncertainty and anxiety which he’s been able to cope with in a positive way. To achieve his values and standards, Otchere is always thinking and cautious about obstacles and confrontations.
Obsessed with motivation, this is a man who is greatly energized to do what he knows is honorable, proper and appropriate. In short, Otchere means well, strives on, and changes course only when necessary or viable.
Might sound a bit strange, but he’s also using the sport of basketball to help deliver passionate personal advice to youngsters between the ages of 12 and 24. He knows that many are infatuated with the sport and can often ramble off the slang associated with the game. Otchere’s victory is trying to enlighten them with hope and pride in their achievements, words that go beyond putting a ball in a basket.
Now 24 years old, Otchere won’t beat around the bush when it comes to communicating with a group that might show signs of vulnerability. He emphasizes that there are triumphs and confrontations in life waiting for them – but it is also something that takes an intuitive commitment on their part.
For him, the dialogue happens through coaching in a gym or in classroom-style community sessions.
It is usually Wednesday evenings at a basketball program at the Burnhamthorpe Collegiate Adult Learning Centre. On Thursday evenings, you’ll find him at the Rathburn Area Youth Office, facilitating discussions on a variety of topics ranging from community issues to dealing with conflicts to youth justice.
Caring, encouraging, and guiding. Three words that describe Otchere – and he’s even stronger when it relates to leadership skills.
Home for Otchere is in one of the approximately 60,000 rental housing units in over 2,100 buildings across Canada’s largest city. You may know it as Toronto Community Housing.
“I see things that I am not happy with – lots of violence in my area, criminal activity and I feel an obligation to help get kids off the street, away from drugs and doing something fulfilling with their lives,” said Otchere, whose family is originally from the West African country of Ghana.
“For me, I have been very fortunate to have had great parental support, a wonderful family and friends, but that’s not always the case for others.”
Having attended West Glen Junior School, Bloorlea Middle School and in the graduating class of 2016 at Silverthorn Collegiate, Otchere didn’t stop learning. He went on to earn back-to-back diplomas in Recreation and Leisure Services followed by Sport Management at Humber College. For the record, both post-secondary accomplishments came with honors academic grades.
As a self-admitted sport fanatic and former two-time high school basketball Most Valuable Player, when talking with Otchere, he leaves you with a clear direction on where his career interests are leaning. Not as an athlete, but in working with them.
That brings us to how he spends his weekdays. No surprise, he’s trying to educate and advocate for others.
For years, Otchere has heard more than enough of devastating scenarios. It has resulted in an exhausting amount of anxiety, stress, and complications. As an advocate and enthusiast, you’ll hear him repeatedly talk of his community duty. That is to do what he can to make the world a better place. Best place to start, is improving things right in his own neighborhood.
Since his graduating year at Silverthorn, Otchere has devoted countless hours working in Toronto Community Housing. It started as a Junior Camp Counsellor, and then branched out as a senior youth leader with the Lakeshore Area Multifaceted Projects (LAMP) Community Health Centre. For almost six years, he was a supervisor and leader with the City of Toronto.
“I wasn’t there to get a cheque, but to make an impactful change,” said Otchere, who said the opportunity got him plugged in to Maple Leaf Sports and Entertainment – especially MLSE’s LaunchPad, which is a series of sport and youth development programs aimed at enhancing healthy and active lifestyles.
“I had played basketball there and liked everything about it,” said Otchere, who has earned some National Coaching Certification Program (NCCP) credentials. “The proximity, the community engagement, the social inter-acting, it was a lively and active place that I wanted to be involved in and I got hooked. It was like a magnet – and I had to be there.”
In 2021, Otchere secured his first fulltime job. It was an opportunity to use a special kind of power to bring people together. He had the work experience, also the project skills earned through education and was well motivated as a youth leader working in sport to now take the next leap – one of encouraging change for the better. Enter the task of becoming a Sport Program Lead at MLSE LaunchPad.
“This opportunity (at MLSE) comes with a great responsibility – and I don’t take it lightly,” he said. “I feel that I have made progress, but there will continue to be a lot more to get done. It’s all about life and making it better for younger people.”
Otchere remembers a biblical phrase shared with him by his twin brothers – “To whom much is given, much is expected”. It’s something that registers with him quite a bit.
Tough times have shaken him over the years. A few years ago, he lost several friends to gun violence, and harder was the death of his father, John, during the pandemic.
“I had to suppress my emotions,” said Otchere. “But things like that hit hard and never go away. My dad would have been so proud knowing what I am doing He and my mom (Florence) not only taught me to take care of myself, but to spend the time to take care of others. It might be one step at a time, but I know I am making progress.”
The Coaches Association of Ontario (CAO) series, “Empowering Stories from behind the Bench”, continues to put the spotlight on individuals – like Otchere – who educate the use of strong coaching fundamentals of improvement, guidance, and training. Canadian Tire Jumpstart Charities has also provided financial assistance in the Jumpstart Into Coaching program offered by the (CAO).
CAO’s Empowering Stories from Behind the Bench – March 2023
“As a coach, I evaluate the priorities of each individual and keep an open mind.”
For some, the essence of satisfaction just might be a plate of poutine, that authentic Canadian dish of fries and cheese curds topped off with a brown gravy.
It may be advisable not to spend time talking about this kind of treat, when you’re in conversation with Cindy Martin, whose career involves working for a dietician.
Educated in culinary management, Martin is focussed on the importance of eating healthy.
It’s something that likely goes back to her youthful days, benefitting from family members – like her grandmother, who was a great cook of venison, duck and rabbit with various vegetables and amazing desserts.
Martin spends her time coaching people to fulfil acts of wellness to oneself for self worth and self care.
Teaching about the culture of a hearty and robust cuisine isn’t the only apprentice that Martin excels in. This amazing woman gets top marks in another type of coaching – something she has devoted countless hours to over the past 14 years.
This one involves the skill of using a bow to shoot arrows in arguably one of the most challenging competitive and recreational activities. It’s called archery, a sport that goes beyond Robin Hood and medieval history to receiving world-wide attention in the Olympic and Paralympic Games.
Born in Hamilton, Martin lives in Ohsweken, which is home to the Six Nations of the Grand River – the only reservein North America where all six Haudenosaunee nations live together. Her traditional Indigenous name in the Cayuga language is Eahwahewi, which means carrier of the news.
For nine years, she was also a volunteer firefighter with the Six Nations Fire Department.
Talking with her, leaves one understanding the importance of living a healthy and active lifestyle.
When the focus turns from nourishments to athletics, the influence of having sound coaching reverberates around a clear understanding of sports dynamics. For Martin, having a great coach is a huge bonus for a youngster eager to learn.
“My first coaching experience was at age 22 and it was instructing kids, at the grassroots level, about canoeing and archery,” said Martin, who is very influential to youngsters and portrays skills that are effective and energetic. “I even coached my three kids to help them get a better understanding of their own interests and identify whether they like team or individual sports.”
Archery means a great deal more than aiming arrows towards a target.
“It’s an art that brings mind, body and breath together,” said Martin, who benefitted from the Aboriginal Apprentice Coach Program (AACP) that allowed coaches of Aboriginal ancestry to the Canada Games in apprenticeship roles.
“As a coach, I evaluate the priorities of each individual and keep an open mind. What is important is that I also don’t allow my ego to get in the way. Working with kids, I tell them to think about what’s important to them.”
She continues to emphasize that archery is a serious skill, that demands respect, attention, and presence. She also is quite clear that an arrow can never be taken back once it is released.
An instructor with Six Nations Archery, Martin is responsible for organizing various tournaments. In August of 2023, she’ll be competing at the World Indigenous Masters Games taking place in Ottawa.
Martin has a close connection to a pair of famous people – Tom Longboat and Pauline Johnson. She is the great-great-great niece of Longboat, the noted distance runner who was inducted into Canada’s Sports Hall of Fame, the Ontario Sports Hall of Fame, and the Indian Hall of Fame. Her cousin was Johnson, a Canadian author, poet, and champion of Indigenous Rights.
She has also been involved with the Tom Longboat segment in the Indigenous Sports Heroes Education component at the Sports Hall of Fame.
Coveted in the knowledge of health promotion and the benefits of physical activity, Martin has been a lightning bolt of encouragement in diabetes education, healthy lifestyles, and traditional wellness programs, to those she has worked with over almost 30 years with the Six Nations Council.
“Working in my community has been very rewarding,” said Martin. “It’s rewarding to support, encourage and empower my community members to be active, healthy and vibrant.”
As if Martin doesn’t have enough to challenge her time, she’s a creative individual and is also an author of a children’s book called “The Protector of Peach: A Haudenosaunee Story” – a beautifully illustrated history lesson about how the eagle becomes the protector of turtle island.
“As a mother, I enjoy telling my children stories about our family, our culture and history,” added Martin, who said it became clear that the experience triggered her desire to write a book for her children.
Martin has been coaching archery at the grassroots level, focussing on boys and girls 10 years and older. It was in 2008 that Martin coached her daughter at the North American Indigenous Games (NAIG) in Cowichan, British Columbia. It’s located on Vancouver Island, north-east of Victoria.
This time, her coaching skills, training, and discipline, branched out to basketball.
“We had a tough time fielding a (girls) team and I offered to coach because no one else was available,” recalled Martin. “For me, coaching is character building. I’m open-minded and look for ways to help (young people) practice their skills. It’s all about motivation and a desire to learn. I am there to guide them and correct technique.”
The Coaches Association of Ontario series, “Empowering Stories from behind the Bench”, continues to put the spotlight on individuals – like Martin – who educate the use of strong coaching fundamentals of improvement, guidance, and training.
“It’s rewarding to support, encourage and empower my community members to be active, healthy and vibrant.”
CAO’s Empowering Stories from Behind the Bench – February 2023
“If you believe in yourself, have dedication and pride and never quit, you’ll be a winner.”
Words from one of the greatest college coaches of all time and expressed so eloquently to people on numerous occasions.
Paul William “Bear” Bryant had the elegance of communicating messages and was a genius in his hallmark days as the football coach at the University of Alabama. Simply put, Bryant was a symbol of success in so many ways.
There are others who say that sport can bring out the best of people.
Put those two comments together and we find an individual eager to build a career in hockey operations. Motivated, enthusiastic, and committed, that’s Dustin Peltier who wants to be the next one to prosper in Canada’s National winter sport.
It should come as no surprise that Peltier, who no longer scores goals for a hockey team, instead dreams of one day getting an opportunity to lead a group of talented individuals who would benefit from so much more – including the synergy of teamwork.
For Peltier, his ambition goes beyond putting a puck in the net. It’s moving up to management where he can incorporate his education with experience in business, commerce, and sports administration. What becomes crystal clear, when talking with Peltier, is that he may have his own formula for that kind of success.
It all starts with confidence.
Determined and focussed, Peltier wants to become the next individual, from an Indigenous community, to be involved in the senior management side of the sport – and that includes the professional game. There was a time when this would have been considered a spectacle or just a one-night wonder.
Not for Peltier. He’s serious, strong-willed, and resolute.
Proud of their First Nations roots, Craig Berube and Ted Nolan are the only head coaches to get the top coaching jobs in the National Hockey League (NHL). Peltier, realizing he may have steep steps to climb, is hoping his name comes up sooner than later. His goal: to be a fulltime General Manager.
“There are lots of steps to navigate through, but that’s my ultimate goal,” he said. “I want to continue to meet people, take advantage of opportunities, continue to gain experience, and hope that one day, it happens.”
Home for Peltier is the Wiikwemkoong Unceded Territory, a First Nation reserve on the eastern peninsula of Manitoulin Island. Known for its rich Indigenous culture, it’s about a six-hour drive northwest of Toronto.
While far from connecting with the professional hockey community, Manitoulin Island is believed to be on the largest freshwater island lake on the planet and is also home to Canada’s first European settlement.
Like most youngsters, Peltier has also had his share of hockey role models. His were former NHL greats Brendan Shanahan and Steve Yzerman. Both are now in executive sports management roles.
While attending Manitoulin Secondary, Peltier played several years of Junior hockey with the Manitoulin Islanders and wanted to keep progressing – but his mother emphasized the priority was to be on education. Her advice was important – and Peltier took it.
Now a huge benefactor of the business marketing program at Algonquin College in Ottawa, followed by a degree in sports administration and commerce from Laurentian University in Sudbury, Peltier gained knowledge and expertise in marketing, event planning and hands-on experience, that would become quite valuable.
“I wanted to work in hockey, that was always the plan,” he said. “Networking and volunteering opportunities opened the doors, and a summer job as a teenager, helped me save money to take a program in Barrie that would involve learning to work, one day, in the professional hockey world.”
That seven-week summer program, along with his positive attitude, would lead to an opportunity – an assignment, from former Barrie Colts general manager Jason Ford. Peltier was given the test of finding talent as a scout for Northern Ontario.
“It was my first experience as a scout and I was at Laurentian at the time,” recalled Peltier who had been a minor hockey coach with players under 18 years of age associated with community level teams Wiikwemkoong. “I jumped at the opportunity and tried to make an impression.”
Building on experience and his resume, an energetic Peltier had an internship with the Ottawa Senators. That four-year experience was with the NHL team’s business development office. As an account manager, he worked with corporate clients, box owners and season ticket holders. His current role is scouting for the Moncton Wildcats in the Quebec Major Junior Hockey League.
“Experience, learning and taking advantage of opportunities,” said Peltier, who has completed the first level of the National Coaching Certification Program. “Doing my best, meeting people and hoping that one day the opportunity to achieve my ultimate goal comes true.”
One of his proudest moments came in 2022, after he was the successful candidate as general manager for the Ontario squad that competed in the National Aboriginal Hockey championship in Membertou, N.S. This is an annual tournament, sanctioned by Hockey Canada, that provides an opportunity for Indigenous hockey players from across Canada, to showcase their athletic abilities.
“It was, and still is, a major event and we beat Saskatchewan 3-2 in overtime to win the gold medal,” said Peltier. “Winning was great but my focus will always be on mentorship and to continue doing what I can to help young players get to the next level.”
Through the Aboriginal Apprentice Coaching Program, Peltier was selected to be with Team Ontario for the 2023 Canada Winter Games scheduled for February 18 to March 5 in Summerside, PEI.
The Coaches Association of Ontario series, “Empowering Stories from behind the Bench”, continues to put the spotlight on individuals – like Peltier – who educate the use of strong coaching fundamentals of improvement, guidance, and training.
“Winning was great but my focus will always be on mentorship and to continue doing what I can to help young players get to the next level.”
The Aboriginal Apprentice Coach Program (AACP) provides the opportunity for each province and territory to send two (2) coaches of Aboriginal ancestry to the Canada Games in apprenticeship roles. For more information on the AACP, please click HERE.